Real examples of planning from different clients
Plans for May 17, 2008 – Scroll down to see “must play” song list
Grand March Introduction music:  
Tonight Show Style
Will you be using my microphone – and if so, at what time?  Yes, for toasts, ~20 minutes after everyone has
had a chance to get their food.
Are there any special announcements you'd like me to make before the dance?  Yes, the guest book will be
on the table by the photo booth.  There will be scissors and tape for them to paste a picture in the book, and
pens for them to write a short message.

Talent show table-release program: If you are having tables released to go through a buffet line, I can
provide a microphone and music for guests to use in games that determine
which table is released next.  Small children could come up to the stage and sing a bit of a song and draw a
number from a hat to see which table is released next.  
We are having a buffet, the table release program
sounds fun!  We liked the idea of kids picking numbers to see which table is released next.  

Should I wear something other than the black tux with black bow tie?  Tux is fine.

FIRST DANCE:  Let me know the song title, artist, and how to word the introduction- for example:
"Let's have a big round of applause, now for
Kelly and Luis________as they dance their first dance as husband and wife."   
First Dance = Somewhere Over the Rainbow, by Israel Kamakawiwo’ole.

SECOND DANCE: Mother/Son and Father/Daughter dance (at same time)
2nd Dance = In My Life, by The Beatles

THIRD DANCE:Kelly and Luis will dance with their siblings   3rd Dance = Gracias a la Vida, by Mercedes
Sosa (we’ll put this song on the CD we’re putting together).

First dance after dinner, right before ‘open’ dance.
Special events during the dance:    wait about 10 songs into the dance before doing these:
__X__Bouquet Toss        
__X_Garter Toss
____Dollar Dance

Polkas – please play one or two

The groom and his family is from Mexico
Groom’s family is from Mexico, Bride’s family is from Wisconsin.

(Y= Play It!     M= Maybe, if time is right     N = Not Even if Requested   ? = What is this?)
__M_MACARENA   _Y__ELECTRIC SLIDE _M__ CHA CHA SLIDE  ...
__M_HAND JIVE  ...  __M_LIMBO ...  __Y_YMCA   __N__THRILLER dance from 13 going on 30
__M_JUMP ON IT Dance (from Fresh Prince of Bel Aire)
_N__SOULJA BOY  __Y_TWIST CONTEST      _N__COUNTRY LINE DANCE LESSONS
Explicit Lyrics OK?  explicit OK
_Y__SALSA ...   __Y__MERENGUE...   _Y___CUMBIA   __Y_ REGGATON
__Y__“SEND-OFF”  Is there a special song you’d like to end the dance with?
Lonestar, Amazed
__Y__Salute to the couple that has been married the longest: There is a routine where I ask all married
couples to dance -and gradually eliminate them until the couple that has been married the longest remains
on the floor… Would you like me to do this?   
_N__I KNEW THE BRIDE __N_GIRLS WITH THE GROOM

We would also like to do the Stayin’ Alive Routine where all the guys have to go on the dance floor and pose
like John Travolta.   All the songs listed below are +’s, please play.  
11   Commodores   Brick House   
12   Clapton, Eric   Wonderful Tonight   
13   Bee Gees   Stayin' Alive   
20   Righteous Brothers   Unchained Melody   
22   Village People   Y.M.C.A.
41   Vanilla Ice   Ice Ice Baby   
42   Gaynor, Gloria   I Will Survive   
46   Franklin, Aretha   Respect   
49   Prince   Kiss   
54   B-52’s  Love Shack
55   Justin Timberlake  Sexy Back   
62   Emeralds   Chicken Dance    
82   Outkast   Hey Ya  
107   Right Said Fred   I'm Too Sexy   
110   Daddy Yankee   Gasolina    
117   Queen   Another One Bites The Dust   
119   Latin: Salsa, Merengue, Cumbia, Reggaton etc.
130   Adams, Bryan   Summer Of '69   
133   Smash Mouth   I'm A Believer   
142   Orbison, Roy   Oh, Pretty Woman   
146   Soundtrack –Madigasscar:   I Like to Move It   
155   James, Rick   Super Freak    
169   Santana Featuring Rob Thomas   Smooth       
183   Cyndi Lauper   Girls Just Wanna Have Fun   
Lenny Kravitz, American Woman

April 2007:
First two songs before dinner: Start as soon as people seated in reception hall:
Apache (Jump on It) – for wedding party to dance top, followed y Hot hot hot for the Conga Line on the way to the head
table...

MUST PLAY REQUESTS:
We are Family
Celebration – Cool in the Gang
Landslide – Shelby & Dad (Fleetwood Mac Version, NOT Dixie Chicks or Smashing Pumpkins)
More – Eric & Shelby first dance (I have song)
Take my Breath Away
It Had to be You – Harry Connick (Eric & Shelby Snowball)
Hokey Pokey
Daniel – Elton John
Sing, Sing, Sing – Swing Kids
Smoke gets in my Eyes – Platters
Buttercup
At Last – Etta James
Over the Rainbow – Afterglow
Hooked on a Feeling – Blue Swede
Stuck in the Middle with You – Stealers Wheel
Closer to Fine – Indigo Girls
Kid Rock
All Night Long – Lionel Richie
Groovy Kind of Love – Phil Collins
Cecila – Paul Simon
Dirty – Cristina Aguillera
Slave 4 You – Britney Spears
Bye, Bye, Bye – N’Sync
Girlfriend – N’Sync with Nelly
Sexy Back – Justin Timberlake
Rock your Body – Justin Timberlake
Promiscuous – Nelly Furtado
Hollaback Girl – Gwen Stefani
Take a Chance on Me - Abba
Let’s go Crazy – Prince
U Got the Look – Prince
1999 – Prince
American Woman - Lenny Kravitz


Rappers
Buttons – Snoop and the Pussy Cat Dolls
Girlfriend – Pussycat dolls
Hey Yeah - Usher
Tipsy – 50 Cent
Hypnotize Me – Big E
Gin & Juice
Drop it Likes it Hot - Snoop
Tongue Clicking Song
Dr. Dre
Ludacris
Busta Rhymes
Whisper Song?
EVE
Jay Z
LL Cool J – Mama Says Knock You Out
Run DMC
Beastie Boys - Girls
Prodigy
Walk this Way – Aerosmith
Push it – Salt & Pepa
Groove is in the Heart - Deelight
Bananarama – Venus
Bee Gees
Start Me Up- Rolling Stones
Waiting for Tonight - Jennifer Lopez

80’s Hair Bands
Metallica
Talk Dirty to Me - Poison
Livin on a Prayer – Bon Jovi
GNR
Motley Crue
White Snake
Slaughter
Van Halen
Billy Idol
INXS
Pink – Let’s Get this Party Started
Go-Go’s
Janet Jackson
Michael Jackson
Bobby Brown – My Perogrative
Bare Naked Ladies – Alcohol
Annie Lennox
Ton Loc
Pearl Jam
U2 – Pride?
RESPECT
The Leader of the Pack
Aerosmith
Talk Dirty to Me
Gold Digger – Kanye West
Hey Now – Outkast
Metallica
Linkin Park
Beyonce – Crazy in Love
Billy Joel – Theresa’s song
Humpty Dance
Let’s get this party started – Pink
Ton Loc – Wild Thang
GNR
Rob Base
I feel so lucky loving her – Peter Cetera
Wild, Wild, West
Crazy little thing called love – Queen
Sheila E – Glamorous Life
Feels Good, Ya… Feels goo-d - Toni Toni Toni?
Do not play list
Macarena
Y.M.C.A.
Brown-eyed Girl
No B-52’s at all
I knew the Bride When she used to rock & roll

May 24th, 2008
Everyone will arrive around 5pm:
5:45pm: We would like you to kind of round everyone up, Nate and I are going to do a "Welcome and Thank-you"
speech (with your microphone?) and then we are going to do the cake cutting.
Cake cutting song: "Ice Cream" by Sarah McLachlan
6:00pm: Champagne Toasts
6:15: Prayer/Dinner
For Arrival and Dinner Music: As we discussed in Aug...
- We would like a lot a Frank Sinatra mixed with other artists with similar style...Michael Buble, Madeline Peyroux,
- Also, music with a good tempo, nothing slow...we don't want people getting tired.
After Dinner:
First Dance: We'd like to be announced as "Mr. and Mrs. Nathan Kalkofen" (Cal-ko-fen)
Song: "Play Me" Neil Diamond...We'd like the original song not the remake.
(We would like about 25 min. in between the first dance and the Father/daughter)
Father/Daughter and Mother/son Dance: we are doing these together.
Song: "Sweat Pea" by Amos Lee
Type of Music:
We want just the usual good old wedding dance music. Nate hate's today's "Top 40" type of music so stay away from
that as much as possible.
Group Dancing Musts:
- Cha Cha Slide
- Electric Slide
- Cotton Eyed Joe
Must Plays:
- A couple Polka's
- Some Swing dance type music
- Forever in Blue Jeans and Sweet Caroline - Neil Diamond
- Ring of Fire - Johnny Cash (Nate loves Johnny Cash so if you could play another one, you think is appropriate for the
mood please do so.)
- Stayin' Alive - beegees (please dedicate this song to Chris Pieper and don't play it until 8 or so...he needs a couple
drinks to get on the dance floor J )
- The Boogie that Be - Black eyed peas (play later in the evening)
- You shook me all night long" - ACDC
- Billie Jean - Michael Jackson
- P.D.A we just don't care - John Legend (play later in the evening)
- Hip hop/rap must be played later in the evening and preferably the popular songs from 1997-2003...that's the age of
the crowd and we don't really know the new stuff.
- An Elvis tune
Slow Songs:
1-2 for the older folks but that's it.
Must NOT plays:
- Macarena
- Closing Time
- You look wonderful tonight
- Tears in Heaven
- We are Family
You can take any request from our guests except for the Not plays.
I think that's it. Please let us know if you have any questions!!
Thanks Paul! And see you soon!

June 2007, two couples at the same event, Band AND DJ:

Will I be introducing the head table as they enter the room? No
Will you be using my microphone – and if so, when will it be needed? No
Are there any special announcements you'd like me to make before the dance? No
Will you need me to bring a video projector along (and DVD player?) NO
FIRST SONG (Couple 1 Dances):  Let me know the Song title, artist, and how to word the introduction- for example:
"Let's have a big round of applause, now for_Blake and Monica____as they dance their first dance
as husband and wife."   (Should I use first names only?)  Song is ”More Than Everything” by Rhett Atkins
SECOND SONG(Couple 2 Dances):    Let me know the Song title, artist, and how to word the introduction- for example:
"Let's have a big round of applause, now for_Ryan and Marjie __as they dance their first dance
as husband and wife."   (Should I use first names only?)  Song is “You Are” by Jimmy Wayne
THIRD SONG (Monca (Daughter) and Jeff (Father) AND Blake (Son) and Judy (Mother) Dance): “Can’t Help Falling in Love with You” by Elvis
played by BAND
____________________________________________________________________
THIRD DANCE (Marjie (Daughter) and Jeff (Father) AND Ryan (Son) and Jean (Mother) Dance):  “The Wonder of You” by Elvis played by
BAND and DJ together

“FIRST DANCE BEFORE DINNER” OPTION:
Should I play your first dance as you enter the room for dinner, then continue the spotlight dances at the
usual time for dancing to begin? NO because you will be setting up in the other room during dinner.

Special events during the dance:   I usually wait about 10 songs into the dance before doing these:
_NO___Bouquet Toss        
_NO___Garter Toss
_NO___Dollar Dance
_________________________________________________________________________
_NO___“SEND-OFF”  Is there a special song you’d like to end the dance with?
Suggestions:___Piano Man group hug  ___New York New York chorus line
_NO___Salute to the couple that has been married the longest: There is a routine where I ask all married
couples to dance -and gradually eliminate them until the couple that has been married the longest
remains on the floor… Would you like me to do this?   It is also a great idea for filling the dance floor early
in the dance with couples who need a good excuse to get up and dance.
_YES__I KNEW THE BRIDE song: (bride gets into the middle of a circle of dancers who take turns dancing
with her.)
_NO__GIRLS WITH THE GROOM routine- What do you think about a song like “Sexy Back” with an
announcement that the female guests must all take turns dancing with the groom?
_NO__Should I do the SNOWBALL routine at any time, where I stop the music and send the dancers out to
ask seated guests to get up and join them on the floor?
Should I be prepared for Ballroom dancers to be at your event? NO
Will there be a group interested in Polka, waltzes, Old Time Butterfly, or Schottische? NO
There are several old-time wedding traditions you may or may not want.
If you dislike the "group dances"- yet guests ask for them- could we compromise by playing a 1-minute
version, and/or speeding the dances up? We do dislike group dances, but YES if there are lots of requests please speed it up
These traditions include the following:
_Only If requested__CHICKEN DANCE  _NO__MACARENA   _NO___FRESH PRINCE U Tube “Jump on it” routine
(Note: the novelty dances can be edited to be shorter, and sped up)
_YES__ELECTRIC SLIDE    _YES___ Casper CHA CHA SLIDE _NO__Stop the Cha Cha slide and teach the “Charlie
Brown”   _NO__Stroll   __NO_Hand Jive   etc.
_NO__LIMBO         NO___TWIST         _Yes_YMCA        __NO__POLKA    
LIGHT SHOW: Are the colorful, flashing lights OK, or would you prefer the colorless system that
accentuates the decor of the room? Light are OK!